marriage · Poetry/Short Stories

Loving My Groom – My first love


My dearest husband, just the other day we met; you like a spy got straight into my heart. How did you expect me to resist your charm? You were and are still a charm that sends wiggly chills to my heart. Under a year into our marriage though; well actually 3 months to be exact, we had the best surprise of our lives in the moment. A baby!!!…..Yes! We found out that we were going to be parents (you went off to buy boy clothes and off with your mind you started planning all the guy things you would do with our baby….Whose gender we didn’t even know yet). I on the other hand, ran off into the little girl section as I was dreaming of all pink!!!. But God did bless us with our boy and then our little girl two years later. True I love our munchkins to pieces and I would give everything for them, but you my love were my first love before them. You are first in every way before our babies.

Even when I am busy with them, I need you to remember that you are constantly first in this heart of mine.

When I am giving little sweet kisses to our little ones, you my love have a special kiss saved just for you.

When our little ones are constantly melting my heart with the little shared moments, you my love melted my heart first.

When I hug our babies so tight not wanting to let go, you my love have a warm spot right here in my arms just for you and only you.

When those 3 words are said to me by friends or perhaps our babies; they are beautiful and treasured but you my love, send them to a spot in my heart that nobody knows.

My love; my first love before any other.

For my groom/my love/husband/best friend/father of my children



14 thoughts on “Loving My Groom – My first love

    1. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. My groom stalked me.I think I was secretly stalking him met at his uncle’s house in New Mexico. I was going to New Mexico State university at a time. He was already working in Texas but had come to visit his uncle around Thanksgiving of 2007. He pretty much assured me I was gonna be his bride. Dated for 6 months and got married back in Uganda. To this day, I am thankful for the day we met ๐Ÿ’•.

  1. What a lovely couple you two are! I noticed your side bar note on your tenth anniversary, that is exciting!

    We, Bob and I, have been married 36 years this June. Isn’t it wonderful to know that you are different than most married couples? That you have the strength to make it last, to work at being married instead of just giving up, to be mature enough to know that life isn’t perfect, but God is and he gets us through the rough times and blesses us with so many good and wonderful gifts and memories.

    So, I’m a little early to the celebration, but congratulations on your first then years! โค

    1. I thank you Lynda for your kindness. I thank you for being one of the women I can say they are doing it and I desire to do it too. God has been faithful throughout the years and for that we are thankful. We look forward to the 10th year by His grace. Thank you again and again ๐Ÿ’ž

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